In Memory of Nelson M. Heeter

Nelson Murray Heeter, of Peters Township, Pennsylvania, passed away on April 24, 2026, surrounded by loved ones.

Nelson was married to the love of his life, Darlene. Their enduring love story spanned more than 59 years. He was the father of Scott (Dianne) and Todd and was blessed with five grandchildren: Sarah Heeter Denver (Matt), Jacob Heeter, Matthew Heeter, and Katelyn Heeter and Kelsey Heeter (daughters of Todd Heeter and Priscilla Heeter). He also leaves one great-grandson, Brooks Denver.

Born in 1940 in Dayton, Ohio, Nelson grew up in Mt. Lebanon, PA. A Duquesne University graduate, he served honorably as a Lieutenant in the U.S. Navy aboard the USS Alamo in the Pacific and on Okinawa. He remained proud of his service to the country throughout his life. 

Printing. Shortly after, he bought the company from his father and built it from a small four-person operation into a thriving company that today has over 140 employees. Through many difficult and lean years, hard work, ethical business practices, and a deep commitment to his employees, he created a company known for quality and fairness. He took great pride in supporting his team both professionally and personally, and his honesty and integrity earned him not only loyal employees, but also the respect and friendship of competitors throughout the industry.

An adventurous spirit, Nelson enjoyed restoring antique cars, motorcycles, and tractors. He loved riding Harley-Davidson motorcycles, woodworking, offshore fishing in Florida, summers with family and friends at Deep Creek Lake, and cheering on the Pirates and Steelers. At 81, he “hung up his motorcycle helmet” for the last time and focused his talent back on building expansive model train layouts.

He loved spending time at home, whether he was cutting grass, washing cars, or helping his wife create one of her beautiful craft projects. He cherished his time with Darlene, larger family gatherings, holiday meals, swimming with the grandchildren, and telling his well-known “Grandpa jokes” (a longer version of dad jokes, often told more than once).

Nelson had a gift for making friends wherever he went, treating everyone he met with the same genuine warmth, kindness, and interest. As a man who loved his community, Nelson felt the need to give back. Whether running the community baseball association or generously supporting local charities and institutions, he wanted to make a positive impact on the people around him.

Nelson lived a full life of adventure, achievement, and love. A devoted husband, proud father and grandfather, successful businessman, and loyal friend, his warmth, humor, and work ethic will be deeply missed. To the end, Nelson and Darlene were often seen holding hands, with Nelson saying, “I do love her so.”

A private family celebration of life will be held in remembrance of Nelson. In recognition of his honorable service to our country, he will be laid to rest at the National Cemetery of the Alleghenies. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Gary Sinise Foundation in Nelson’s memory.